As a demonstration of how different we remain even after 23 1/2 years of love, I offer this recent exchange with my husband. What's remarkable to me, always, is how many surprises remain, even after all of this time. I may know him so well, or think I do, and yet he retains the ability to dazzle me with a perspective that is not at all my own.
It's a constant process of unfolding, this long, long love. I learn something new all the time.
In typical fashion, now that we're exploring Bikram yoga, going to class together or separately,